ATTITUDES

Good morning bloggers:

Dr Renate Volpe says in her Personal Mastery cards "If you feel depressed, you may indeed be angry".

Well personally, I think that it is good for us to feel anger and even depression on occasion. Like every other emotion, they are supposed to be felt from time to time.

The problem arrives however, when our lives are governed by feelings of anger and/or depression. You should then take yourself off to a professional of sort for assistance in dealing with these feelings.

Then of course there is the situation when you take these feelings with you to the office or on your travels to client's. Please believe me when I tell you that this is really not a good idea at all. Your client's will 'pick' up on this and react accordingly. You are putting yourself in a very real situation where you could lose the sale or even the client - so be aware of it.

You see your sub-conscience will project these emotions and the client's sub-conscience will pick up on it. Be aware of what you put out there! Look at yourself in a mirror, give yourself a 'pep talk", kick your own arse (if necessary), put your besst smile on your face, you know the one that lights up in your eyes as well, think positive thoughts and have an attitude adjustment!

Not only will you feel better, but you will come across better too. Your client will 'pick' up on the mood and react accordingly.

Think about what you are doing, how you are thinking and how the other person 'sees' you.

Hope you have a fantablous fear free Friday 13th.

Dr Renate Volpe has a whole bunch of cards in the following categories:

Self Esteem Nuggets

Assertive Living

Negotiation Intelligence
Personal Mastery

Networking Tips

Leadership Insights

If you would like to know more about these products or Dr Renate Volpe herself, please visit her website on www.HIRS.co.za